In a relationship, we sometimes get “comfortable.” Is that good or bad? Well, it can be both depending on how it is affecting you and your partner. When you speak to one another, listen to what is being said. Don’t just hear them, truly listen to what they are saying. When you begin to get comfortable and get used to each other you may stop speaking to each other like friends. Aren’t friends pleasant with one another? Playful? Are you nicer to your friends than you are to your spouse? Speak to your partner in a pleasant manner. While the conversation topics may change, speak to them nicely and respectfully.
But he/she doesn’t listen to me, you say. Well, is what you are both doing now working? But, it was working in the beginning right? Be pleasant.
If you or your partner find this difficult, we can teach you to fight fair. Life is too short to not be happy.
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